I learned.

Good morning,

It’s a new week with new opportunities. I hope you all are having a good start to the week.

I thought of starting up with something slightly different. I will share each Monday with what I learnt from last week. It may not be interesting for all of you, but Iet’s see how it goes.

1. Open minded

I’m a very open person, which can be an issue sometimes. I trust everyone easily. I always think that they want the best for me, but the answer is no. I learnt thorough the hard times. Some will only be there for their own purposes or needs. Once they’re fulfilled, you don’t exist anymore.
2. Kindness

I can’t say no to anyone. I take more tasks or responsibilities for others. It can be a good thing, but not always. I either say yes or explain myself why I can’t do it, but is it necessary? No! I learned that you can be a kind person and say no to the others. Kindness is strength, it’s not a weakness.

3. Deadlines

” I will do it tomorrow. ” We all are familiar with this sentence, right? I’m one of them. I push everything to the next day, but what happens on that day? It will continue till the last minute.
I have started to plan my week and my tasks realistically. You know yourself better than anyone else, don’t overload yourself, but plan accordingly.

A few things I learned from last week. It may take some time before I can change fully, but at least I learned it. Is there anyone else who has the same problem? Feel open to share it with me.

I wish you all a beautiful week.


Nivetha Vijay


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  1. Priya March 20, 2017 at 9:57 am

    Hi dear ❤
    I see myself through this post as it is so true. I am so kind with people that they would take advantages from me. L’île this morning I have a project with a girl and she imposes things to me because she knows I won’t tell anything. I saw many people talking to me when they need me, and this since my early age. But when I need something suddenly no one is here.
    And yeah I am also the person who would pack her suitcase until last time and panic because she can’t find a thing.
    I start to do some plannings and it works actually. I hope it will work for you too.
    Priya .

    1. veethaa March 22, 2017 at 8:07 pm

      Hi Priya <3

      Oh, yes! I'm trying my best to improve <3 Thank you so much for your lovely words.

      Lots of love,

      Nivetha Vijay